Aita for explaining to my daughter why her milestones - I do love my daughter deeply but to this day I still have problems coming to terms with being a father, and envying my life before. I see my daughter mostly just on Christmas and her birthday. I’m not a very involved parent, in my defense I live an hour and a half away and work 6 days a week. When my daughter was 5 she was diagnosed with cancer.

 
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OPs daughter may feel slightly better about her social status leaving these kids out of her party, but these kids will always wonder what they did to her to deserve being othered. My only hope is that if OP gives in to the guilt trip, that none of these kids end up with lasting damage for the sake of an 11 year old social climber.Her teachers aren’t going to like her, some of her classmates won’t like her, and her classmates parents certainly aren’t going to like her. OP will be one of those parents who get on here to ask if it’s okay to jump another parent about why their kid wasn’t invited to …Mia looked at me and said "sorry mom but I want him I know you and him have bad blood but I want him to do it I've been sending letters and he's been sending them back". I then said something I regretted I said "if you invite him I'm not giving you my wedding dress or coming". Mia started tearing up and said fine don't come and ran out now my ...Her other parent and I want her to have good grades so she can go to a good college and have the best career opportunities set up for her in life. Her teacher sent out an email explaining that grades are low because they did not review the content in class sufficiently, and my daughter said, "See, even Ms. X isn't worried."I was suicidal at the time and they all knew it. What a bitch. Through ALL of this I was forced to see her every damn time she came. My mom loved her cause "that's my sister" despite, you know, me being her daughter. My grandma was similar because she says "you don't abandon family," even when they abuse other family apparently.See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE) AITA for telling my parents they don’t have a daughter. 2. Me and my sibling are still with my granny She said she is happy to take care for us and that she loves having her grandchildren staying with her. 3.Mia looked at me and said "sorry mom but I want him I know you and him have bad blood but I want him to do it I've been sending letters and he's been sending them back". I then said something I regretted I said "if you invite him I'm not giving you my wedding dress or coming". Mia started tearing up and said fine don't come and ran out now my ...AITAengagement. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my daughter to cancel her marriage? Not the A-hole. I have a daughter (27) who was with her boyfriend for 7 years and they got engaged not long ago (just a small party, not many guests). She always talks to me about how she loved him, how he always listens to he and he was made for her.I (F22) have a twin 'Maya' (F24) who is married to my BIL 'Lightwave' (M26) they've been together a few years and seem comfortable, so good for them I guess. Anyway, we were at a family barbecue and I overheard my BIL telling my great aunt '3DS Max' (F63) that, and NSFW warning, "We're trying for a child!" he even looked happy about it, as if ...Expert-Verified Answer. question. No one rated this answer yet — why not be the first? 😎. MariaHalley. Aita is a introduction from an age of despair. Found through …OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: insisting that my daughter uphold her end of an agreement we made & punishing her for not upholding it 2) we made the agreement when she was only twelve, so my husband thinks that it should not still be upheld.See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE) AITA for telling my parents they don’t have a daughter. 2. Me and my sibling are still with my granny She said she is happy to take care for us and that she loves having her grandchildren staying with her. 3. The only relevant people to this story are my bio daughter Emily and Lora my step daughter I’ve been in my step daughters life since she was 6 years old I see her as a daughter I swore I’d never be like my step father and treat a child differently because of something silly like dna, emliy hates Lora and has turned her brothers against her ... OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter I would disown her if she ever got piercings. 2. My youngest daughter took me seriously and was scared that I didn't love her anymore. Help keep the sub engaging!My daughter lost the ability to work, and her husband was suddenly responsible for also helping his father and younger siblings have a place to live. This, and her medical costs, quickly drained their small savings to the point that they couldn't keep up their apartment, so she moved back in with us, "temporarily."Her other parent and I want her to have good grades so she can go to a good college and have the best career opportunities set up for her in life. Her teacher sent out an email explaining that grades are low because they did not review the content in class sufficiently, and my daughter said, "See, even Ms. X isn't worried."Their refusal to acknowledge your birthday is the selfish act here, not your acceptance of your friends' thoughtfulness and generosity. What you're dealing with is not fair and not right, and your mom ought to feel ashamed for ignoring your birthday and denying its importance to you. NTA. 14.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: insisting that my daughter uphold her end of an agreement we made & punishing her for not upholding it 2) we made the agreement when she was only twelve, so my husband thinks that it should not still be upheld.I told her that this is the cut my daughter wanted. My wife got furious and started telling me about how I ruined daughter's image. I shot back at her to get over the hair-cut as it made daughter happy. That was all I wanted was my daughter to be happy My wife continued to complain about the haircut even around my daughter and I had to tell her ...My daughter was suppose to graduate college this semester. We have been talking about her graduation party for basically 7 months. What she wanted to do and who to invite. We have already sent out the invites and multiple relatives have booked flights to come up. The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 ...ADMIN. AITA for doing the same thing to my sister-in-law that she does to my son? Not the A-hole. So background: I (32f) have a brother, "Dave" (35m), who's married to "Sarah" (29f). They don't have children yet. I have a son who just turned four and a three-month-old daughter with my husband (39m).ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my sister to accept her daughter is white? Not the A-hole. Both me (33F) and my sister (27F) are caucasian latinas. However, she's always been more tan than me, a fact she's always been very proud of. For reference, my skin tone is close to Aubrey Plaza's, while hers is closer to Gina Rodriguez's.You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply.You made a promise to pay for her wedding under the expectation that you'd be allowed the same courtesies as anyone else - to bring your +1, and if 8ts not child free, to bring your child. Those are basic standards. Keep your money for someone who respects your basic human rights. Perhaps her 2nd marriage. Reply reply.In her brilliant, ~6yo wisdom decided she wanted her out small pizza, and that she would eat the whole thing. My parents warned her that if she didn’t, Baba Yaga would come to take her away. Yup. Cool. I want my pizza. 3 bites in and she’s done, as expected. My parents warned her a second time, she said she would eat it. Nope. I’ve had ...So AITA? Update: I confronted my wife about this and she said that it was a milestone moment and I should have stopped to get her to watch/record. I explained that I wasn’t thinking about recording my of it and more in the moment of it. I apologized for it hurting her feelings but stressed that I don’t think I did anything wrong. I do love my daughter deeply but to this day I still have problems coming to terms with being a father, and envying my life before. I see my daughter mostly just on Christmas and her birthday. I’m not a very involved parent, in my defense I live an hour and a half away and work 6 days a week. When my daughter was 5 she was diagnosed with cancer. My family was small, consisting of me, my husband, daughter, parents, brother, his wife, and two nephews. Their loss devastated my life and everyone else's, particularly my father and sister-in-law. A year ago, my daughter, Betty (25F), was proposed to by her fiancé, and preparations began for their wedding.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter that I wouldn't be attending her graduation because I just wouldn't be practical to fly back and forth 2.AITA for “forcing” my daughter to interact with her aunt : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have ...Update: AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? UPDATE. Original. I posted about 3 months ago, I was very anxious about her moving out and the plan she made sounded so unlike her. I talked to her again and said I supported her decision and I wanted her to what made her happy.Have the nanny talk to her too, but open a general conversation with your daughter about her body and changes and puberty in general, and make sure she knows you are here to help her. There's a lot more to female puberty than just periods, so learn with her. Guide her in seeking information.Small business owners often have a difficult time managing projects. They have access to fewer resources, and therefore, often perform most of the operational, planning and coordin...JacquesBN. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as we have ...The RealReal's blockbuster IPO is a milestone for the luxury resale industry. Remember when “secondhand” meant a trip to the Salvation Army for ugly sweater day? Or when “thrifting... I just saw this one in the wild and left a judgment (I don't often go directly to AITA, but it showed up in my feed). I wanted to crosspost it but saw it was already here. This woman's priorities are completely bonkers, not even the apparent Golden Child understands her thought process (because it's bonkers). ErrantJune. Finally, an hour later, my fiance called me back. I explained what happened and she apologized for forgetting to call the school because she got distracted with work. She told me she would figure it out and meet me at home. When she and Riley got home, Riley went straight to her room. My fiance sat me down and told me that Riley had lied to the ... OPs daughter may feel slightly better about her social status leaving these kids out of her party, but these kids will always wonder what they did to her to deserve being othered. My only hope is that if OP gives in to the guilt trip, that none of these kids end up with lasting damage for the sake of an 11 year old social climber. Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. AITA for not telling my father and stepmother about my son's birth? Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, possible parental alienation, infantilizing behaviors. Original Post - Nov 7, 2023. My (26F) father (59M) has been dating "Paula" (38F) for 4 years.1 you should start listening to women. If you truly care about how others feel, you should listen to what they say, actively ask questions, and act accordingly. 2 always tip your waitress. It's not an easy job, and don't expect them to dance like a monkey for you before you allow them their livelihoods through a tip.AITA for getting my friend to explain to my daughter why her dream career sucks? Not the A-hole. I came to America in the 1980s from China, and my family was very poor. My dad made pennies and had to support 4 kids, including me, and his wife and himself. I felt a lot of pressure to help my family and so my dad suggested that I become a nurse.Boy why did I say that. My daughter ran downstairs crying, face beet red 10 minutes after my conversation with her dad, calling me terrible and accusing me of not wanting her to spend time with her dad. I told her that’s not the case and she demanded to know why I couldn’t take her, I couldn’t give her an answer and she ran upstairs crying.The principal wanted my daughter to give an apology to her. I told them no and that we are leaving. This started the mom telling me her daughter needs an apology. I told her that her kid is a brat and she should learn how to behave in class. That if she wasnt annoying as all hell my daughter wouldn’t have snapped after 5 months.Boy why did I say that. My daughter ran downstairs crying, face beet red 10 minutes after my conversation with her dad, calling me terrible and accusing me of not wanting her to spend time with her dad. I told her that’s not the case and she demanded to know why I couldn’t take her, I couldn’t give her an answer and she ran upstairs crying.AITA for telling my daughter that her not wanting kids is why I wanted to have more children I (42 F) was a teen mom, I got married only a few weeks after I turned 18 and I gave birth to my daughter Kiara (24 F) the week before I was 19. I was a baby myself and I resented my circumstances, especially after my husband died.I (F22) have a twin 'Maya' (F24) who is married to my BIL 'Lightwave' (M26) they've been together a few years and seem comfortable, so good for them I guess. Anyway, we were at a family barbecue and I overheard my BIL telling my great aunt '3DS Max' (F63) that, and NSFW warning, "We're trying for a child!" he even looked happy about it, as if ...The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 months. She failed a class she need to graduate last semester and didn’t inform anyone. She told us this yesterday, the party is in about a month, everything has been paid for already. So I informed her she needs to call all her relatives and explain the situation.I (46F) have been having problem with my daughter Sara (24). It began when she eloped with her husband three years ago, me and my husband were really sad that we couldn't see her get married or even know about it until it was over. We were sad but got over it, it was her day and if she didn't want anyone there then that was that.The reason of my divorce was due to multiple cheating that happened through our marriage during work trips and out of them 2. In our divorce I didn’t fight for anything as I just wanted our daughter to see how a healthy relationship should be between her father and I not once argued Infront of her. We divorce when she was just 2 years old ...I (46F) have been having problem with my daughter Sara (24). It began when she eloped with her husband three years ago, me and my husband were really sad that we couldn't see her get married or even know about it until it was over. We were sad but got over it, it was her day and if she didn't want anyone there then that was that. My (60sM) daughter (28F) has had a hard life. To be completely up front, my wife has never been kind to her, but she has her share of problems as well and I really do wish my daughter, Faye, would be more sympathetic to them. I married her 15 years ago and she is 57. Also to be upfront, I am a bit "online" myself and my wife and son (15M) do ... Welcome to 'AITA Talk,' a heartfelt and hilarious mother-daughter podcast where we dive deep into the AITA subreddit. Join us as we explore the juiciest and most thought-provoking AITA stories. We believe that navigating life's tricky situations requires empathy, open-mindedness, and a healthy dose of laughter.I've talked to my daughter about it, and all she can say is that the other girl is annoying, childish, and she has even called her names. I really can't grasp the problem. I find my future stepdaughter sweet and bright. I've never had any issues with her. My daughter also doesn't like my fiancé. She says I could find a much better man. I've ...silver_1919. AITA for refusing to stop calling my daughter by her nickname. Not the A-hole. I (m37) have a daughter (13) who I call Goose. She was born at 27 weeks and only weight 2 pounds. While she was in the NICU I decided she needed a fighter pilot name (top gun is one of my favorite movies) so I started calling her Maverick and Goose to ...AITA for telling my daughter I don’t support her. Asshole. I (63M) don’t think I’m the asshole here since I can’t help how I feel, but my wife and son are absolutely furious with me. I have two children, Noah (35) and Janes (32)-fake names. Noah went to a good college, has a good job, is married, and has a four year old.A father of twins is saving up to combat the wage gap his daughter is likely to experience in the workplace. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions fro...Reasonable-Issue2334. AITA for calling my sister for treating her child better then me. Asshole. My sister taken my brothers and I in when we were just ( 4f 5m 6m) and she was only 19 at the time and did sacrifice alot for us including her boyfriend she been with since she was 12 who broke up with her when he found out that she'd be applying ... So last week, me, my wife and 2 kids went out to the zoo for my daughters 23rd birthday. We were having a great time. While leaving an enclosure some woman sort of cut us off and pushed in front of us to get out first. She didn’t actually touch us, and it wasn’t that big a deal but was a little obnoxious, and I said “there’s no need to ... Is Leslee Udwin insulting Indian feminists? I am puzzled. Five prominent Indian feminists including Urvashi Batalia wrote a letter to NDTV explaining why they objected to the BBC d...You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My daughter was suppose to graduate college this semester. We have been talking about her graduation party for basically 7 months. What she wanted to do and who to invite. We have already sent out the invites and multiple relatives have booked flights to come up. The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 ...I (F22) have a twin 'Maya' (F24) who is married to my BIL 'Lightwave' (M26) they've been together a few years and seem comfortable, so good for them I guess. Anyway, we were at a family barbecue and I overheard my BIL telling my great aunt '3DS Max' (F63) that, and NSFW warning, "We're trying for a child!" he even looked happy about it, as if ...I appreciate you pointing out the “individual time”. I have a lot of siblings and have great memories with all of the family celebrating things together. However, one of my most cherished memories is the solo out to dinner I had with my parents to celebrate a milestone in my life. Coincidentally I was 17 too.In her brilliant, ~6yo wisdom decided she wanted her out small pizza, and that she would eat the whole thing. My parents warned her that if she didn’t, Baba Yaga would come to take her away. Yup. Cool. I want my pizza. 3 bites in and she’s done, as expected. My parents warned her a second time, she said she would eat it. Nope. I’ve had ...Asshole. I (38M) have a daughter, Anna (12), who got her period Monday. I was talking with my mom (71) a day or two ago and Anna came up so I mentioned that Anna got her period. My mom ended up telling a bunch of other family members including my sister (32F) and aunt (68F). My sister sent my daughter a text about it being good timing or ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refuse to stay home with my step daughter's baby so she can go work. 2) Step daughter does not trust daycare or nannies. She will be confined to home all day with baby for atleast 3 years and lose her job. Help keep the sub engaging!NTA Calling someone to explain why they are not invited is just needlessly antagonistic and weird as fuck and I can guarantee feelings would still be hurt and would cause you/wife a lot of stress. Someone who has your wife blocked has no business getting an invite. Reply reply. Little-Conference-67.2 always tip your waitress. It's not an easy job, and don't expect them to dance like a monkey for you before you allow them their livelihoods through a tip. 3 actually think about how your jokes make others feel. Don't go in defense and immediately say "it's just a …The principal wanted my daughter to give an apology to her. I told them no and that we are leaving. This started the mom telling me her daughter needs an apology. I told her that her kid is a brat and she should learn how to behave in class. That if she wasnt annoying as all hell my daughter wouldn’t have snapped after 5 months.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be an asshole for telling my daughter that I will not pay for her wedding or walk her down the isle until she invites her siblings she excluded due to them not being "traditional" and their families to the wedding and this has upset her.AITA for telling my friend her daughter is banned from my home after accusing my daughter of bullying . Not the A-hole This is some drama so I will try to keep it as clear as possible. My daughter used to have a friend name Kat. They were besties in preschool until middle school but slowly grew apart. They are both in 8th grade.My daughter is going through a phase where she is borderline obsessed with socks. It’s LMFAO’s “shots, shots, shots,” but to the tune of &am...If you stand still while someone is getting stabbed, of course the bigger asshole is the culprit, but the witness who did nothing while he could is somewhat an asshole too. It would be more an ESH situation, but with how OP worded the title, she is an ah for refusing to explain her daughter the reason of their divorce.But for her it’s definitely a struggle and not how she’s wired or sees things. But for me it’s like nothings just mine to have - like all my things and milestones and parts of my life are never fully my own. Which is also a lot of my own problems too but this incompatibility doesn’t help and exacerbated things.metalvito. AITA for expecting my adult daughter to pay back what she owes me? Asshole. My (48M) daughter (21F), Aria, abandoned us (her stepmother, younger half-sister and me) when she was 15 to go live with my enabling ex-wife, Sandra, and her husband. Until then, we had 50/50 custody, but Sandra has always been less "strict" than me.Mia looked at me and said "sorry mom but I want him I know you and him have bad blood but I want him to do it I've been sending letters and he's been sending them back". I then said something I regretted I said "if you invite him I'm not giving you my wedding dress or coming". Mia started tearing up and said fine don't come and ran out now my ... Because my daughter also has some of those same challenges with executive function, so I want to explain that difference respectfully. But I also want to maintain the expectation that she NOT do stuff like that herself (her support needs are lower, so that is a reasonable expectation for her). I said I didn't want to. She then said to do it because I loved her. Dad said there was no woman more deserving. I told them I didn't love her enough to let her be my mom. She cried. My dad told me he didn't know why I was lying but therapy would help me see I loved her. I did go to therapy. I didn't change my mind on letting her be my mom ...AITA For Making My Daughter Quit Her Job? I am 43M, my wife Jen is 42F, and our daughter Angie is 17F. My wife and I got married after college, went on to get good jobs in our respective careers, and we make a combined 485k. We have a nice home, we live in a nice neighborhood, and we feel really blessed to have the lives we have and to be able ...I heard her teacher address a girl named Kelly a few times, which stuck out to me because my daughter’s class is only about 15 kids and I know them all by this point in the year. A couple times more and I realized she was calling my daughter Kelly. My daughter’s name is Keeley, pronounced Kee-Lee. So after school was over I asked her if ...Jan 29, 2024 · She just told me I have been there for many of her milestones and she wants her father to experience some too. Things got heated and we argued. The night before her graduation, I pleaded with her but she ignored me when I spoke. AITA for explaining to my daughter why her milestones seems less important then her cousins. 1.3K upvotes · 2.6K comments. 4. 3. Sort by: Add a Comment. Snuffluffugus. • 1 yr. ago. Ah poop, it was removed. 1. Reply. Share. 145K subscribers in the redditonwiki community.MOD. AITA for CCing all family, friends, and coworkers after my husband divorced me via email? I (47F) woke up yesterday morning to an email from my husband of 21 years (50M) entitled " Working Things Out." Very deceptive title because instead of arranging a meeting or even a phone call, my husband goes on a four paragraph soapbox speech about ...throwawayex8327. AITA telling my ex's daughter the truth about why I can't see her anymore. Not the A-hole. My ex, Cara , has a sweet, amazing daughter, Layla. I've been in Layla's life since she was 5 (now 14). We've always gotten along super well, and were ridiculously close. Layla has never met her biological father, but considers me her ...A year ago, when my daughter first moved into her place, apparently my daughter had told my wife she was considering not being vegan anymore. One time we visited her apartment, and my wife went to check her refrigerator to see if she had meat. (Something intrusive that she apologized for yesterday on FaceTime.)

My husband and I are raising three kids. My husband was married before me and he has a son, Cole (16m) from his first marriage. Cole's mom died 11 years ago and my husband and I met 9 years ago and married 7 years ago. Together my husband and I have a daughter Freya (6) and Theo (5). Cole has never really accepted me as family or the kids.. Cringe roast

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r/AmItheAsshole •. AITA for breaking a promise and attending my stepdaughter's graduation? I’ll start by explaining some backstory. I (54M) lost my first wife when my son (25M) and daughter (22F) were ages 9 and 12, Both my kids took it as hard as you would expect and to this day have a poor relationship with both my current wife "Doreen ...You made a promise to pay for her wedding under the expectation that you'd be allowed the same courtesies as anyone else - to bring your +1, and if 8ts not child free, to bring your child. Those are basic standards. Keep your money for someone who respects your basic human rights. Perhaps her 2nd marriage. Reply reply.ADMIN. AITA for doing the same thing to my sister-in-law that she does to my son? Not the A-hole. So background: I (32f) have a brother, "Dave" (35m), who's married to "Sarah" (29f). They don't have children yet. I have a son who just turned four and a three-month-old daughter with my husband (39m).The only relevant people to this story are my bio daughter Emily and Lora my step daughter I’ve been in my step daughters life since she was 6 years old I see her as a daughter I swore I’d never be like my step father and treat a child differently because of something silly like dna, emliy hates Lora and has turned her brothers against her ...Cannabis company Trulieve Cannabis Corp. (CSE:TRUL) (OTCQX:TCNNF) has hit the milestone of opening its 99th and 100th stores nationwide. The comp... Cannabis company Trulieve Cann...I-15 male have a mom 36 female who when I was younger would constantly explode on me explaining why exactly she hated certain things I did and why it was so bad that I did them and blah blah blah blah blah blah and she would also yell at me in those rankings for things I didn't even do regardless of whether or not I was speaking even if I was ...In a similar vein—my older daughter is 5 and is adopted, something she has always known about. A year ago, she asked why I was her mommy instead of her birthmom. I explained that Birthmom didn’t have any money to take care of a baby or a good place to live, and it was important to her that [Little Luna] had those things.I told her that this is the cut my daughter wanted. My wife got furious and started telling me about how I ruined daughter's image. I shot back at her to get over the hair-cut as it made daughter happy. That was all I wanted was my daughter to be happy My wife continued to complain about the haircut even around my daughter and I had to tell her ...AITA for telling my daughter I don’t support her. Asshole. I (63M) don’t think I’m the asshole here since I can’t help how I feel, but my wife and son are absolutely furious with me. I have two children, Noah (35) and Janes (32)-fake names. Noah went to a good college, has a good job, is married, and has a four year old. Update: AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? UPDATE. Original. I posted about 3 months ago, I was very anxious about her moving out and the plan she made sounded so unlike her. I talked to her again and said I supported her decision and I wanted her to what made her happy. I told my daughter that her dad don’t want to see her and showed her the texts he has been writing because she did not believe me. 2. This might make me an asshole because it really hurt my daughter and her dad says that I have now ruined their relationship among other things. Help keep the sub engaging!I29m have a 7 year old daughter. My ex and I split up a little while after my daughter was born. I never expected to be a father. I do love my daughter deeply but to this day I still have problems coming to terms with being a father, and envying my life before. I see my daughter mostly just on Christmas and her birthday.This is the one: You didn't want her. She is the reason her parents divorced. Sibling rivalry with the baby the parents planned and wanted. One of these would cause a teenager a lot of upset, I would say you've caused some irreversible damage to your relationship with your daughter.Mar 27, 2024 | 1:34 PM. ADVERTISING. Unfortunately, some people don't respect boundaries, no matter how many times you reinforce them. In a popular post on the … The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 months. She failed a class she need to graduate last semester and didn’t inform anyone. She told us this yesterday, the party is in about a month, everything has been paid for already. So I informed her she needs to call all her relatives and explain the situation. The principal wanted my daughter to give an apology to her. I told them no and that we are leaving. This started the mom telling me her daughter needs an apology. I told her that her kid is a brat and she should learn how to behave in class. That if she wasnt annoying as all hell my daughter wouldn’t have snapped after 5 months.H aving to miss important milestones in your child’s life due to other prevailing responsibilities is definitely not easy, and one mom really felt the guilt creep up on her when she missed yet ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I am refusing to keep contributing to my daughter's tuition unless she can start giving me the time of day and respecting me.My daughter will be ungrounded tomorrow for what she failed to do last Saturday. Her peers voted her as the Homecoming Queen, and she received the crown at the Homecoming Dance last Saturday night. At her high school, the winners of Homecoming Court are notified several days in advance. I told her congratulations, but my husband and I told her ...I said I didn't want to. She then said to do it because I loved her. Dad said there was no woman more deserving. I told them I didn't love her enough to let her be my mom. She cried. My dad told me he didn't know why I was lying but therapy would help me see I loved her. I did go to therapy. I didn't change my mind on letting her be my mom ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for throwing a birthday party for my daughter while my niece is in the ICU. Everyone Sucks. My daughter just turned 4 a couple days ago. My husband and I are throwing her a surprise party on Saturday and we invited her class, her friends from her dance and gymnastics classes and Girl Scouts, and her cousins..

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